Sunday 23 August 2015

India - One & Indivisible -

The soil of India is our highest heaven, the good of India is our good…

When our son came from the district level patriotic song competition this afternoon and said, “Our team got the first position and is through to the state level”, instead of congratulating him, we wished him to sing that song for us at least once more that had been a regular practice since last three days and being a good boy, he began -

“Mann samarpit, tann samarpit aur yeh jeevan samarpit
Chahata hun Matri-Bhu, tujhko abhi kuchh aur bhi doon…”
This is it -
It is not sufficient to believe and think of my India as the mother land as a bare intellectual idea. It has to be adored and loved as passionately and deeply as a maternal power that can dominate the mind, seize the heart and create patriotism within as an almost mystic perception.
Mother India reveals herself as something more than a stretch of earth or a mass of individuals. Indeed, the awe and admiration of the people feel for the snow-swathed summits of the Himalayas, the menacing hills of the Frontiers, the laughing valleys of Kashmir, the rolling down of Deccan, the surge and thunder of the seas, the limpid flow of the great rivers of the country is the proof and measure of its inspiring and formative influence.

Like every past single year since 1947, this 15th day of August is also celebrated as the independence day of India to commemorate the world’s biggest democracy. It marks as the day of freedom won back from the british rule after great struggle. All the patriotic hearts rejoiced. It was the birth of a new nation and a new beginning…
But a question always arises in the mind, “Is it the real freedom?”
The despair of partition always overshadows the happiness of heart and I could not help getting highly emotional. It felt, India is free but she has not achieved unity, it's nothing but a fissured and broken freedom, all because of the permanent political division. I do believe, such division cannot obliterate certain national and historical memories on both side of the division and hopeful for eternal brotherhood and union. The boundaries may change with political fluctuations. In spite of the present circumstances that seems tensed every now and then, we are one in our soul and spirit.
May these two democratic states respect, preserve and promote these deeper unities in the life of their people without emphasizing their differences which are comparatively superficial and confined only to politics, for politics does not exhaust the totality of the life’s interests. It's our responsibility to establish love, peace and harmony over hatred, war and skirmishes.
Democracy is the emergence of people’s power. It lets every man to be free in soul, bound to service by love, to be equal in spirit, apportioned his place in society by his capacity to serve society to be in harmonious relations with his fellow nationals, linked to them by mutual love and service.The mission is to point back humanity to the true source of human liberty, human equality, human brotherhood. When man is free in spirit, all other freedom is at his command.

Thus, the need is to develop a realistic perception at the conceptual level focusing on righteousness and judicious outlook on the part of political level. If this objective is achieved, then the realization of thinking, acting and seeing human unity in diversity in practical term too would become a distinct possibility.

Some may agree, many may disagree, but my heart speaks out this way that believes in oneness. Time has undergone a sea of change now. It asks us to see beyond the self and visualize what is not only good for the survival of the human race, but also for its welfare and establishment of a peace loving society.

We all are the sailors of this young energetic millennium full of expectation, hope and promise of a very prosperous future. Let us introspect and search for our souls honestly to ascertain to what extent our dreams are likely to be fulfilled. A mere glance and peep through in the past will convince us the futility of our expectations. The clashes, conflicts, violence, bloodshed and massacre continue abated in the name of caste, creed or religion and boundaries of the nation.The time tested human values are being trampled and the concept of morality, ethics and character are becoming mere play of words. The religion instead of being a binding force is leading to clashes among people. That is perhaps the most unfortunate paradox. Need of the hour is to usher happiness and prosperity, love and humility, peace and tranquility by a firm determination and courage of conviction on the part of individual to treat humanity as the only religion with purity of mind, thought and action for a peaceful living.

Mother India awaits for us to respond to her call to awaken to her mission. May we be her hero warriors and her worthy children keeping the hope alive and join hands to work incessantly and learn to devote all our resource, energy and strength for the welfare of all living beings and respect for life on this land to make it a better place to live in…


Let the soul of India live forever!!!

Wednesday 19 August 2015

Male-Female Mindset Or.....???

Apart from the choice of food, where they both (my husband & son) are pure Veggies and I'm a Non-Veg eater...
Perhaps, we three share similar ideologies but ONE - Where they both believe they're very strong because they have the ability to deal with their sorrows and keep their lives in order without showing those to others and I believe that the ability to share feelings and emotions with others is a sign of strength which I have because I'm not afraid of letting others see those...
Is this just a contradiction of the Male-Female Mindset Or.....???

My son says - 

This surely is a contradiction of Male-Female Mindset Mom. It actually is our perception that makes a difference in the way we think... The major fault in our society's perception is that boys are taught to be hardcore and tough whereas girls from the 
beginning are taught to be sweet and moderate. This is what makes all the difference between Male & Female what you call 'Male-Female Mindset'. This fatal pre-concieved notion of our society should definitely be abolished and this clash of your and our mindsets is nothing but absolutely natural so we cannot help it until the society decides to help it... 

unsure emoticonOn a lighter note, I just remembered your scrumptious delicacies when u addressed me as a 'VEGGIE' !!

Myself in response-
You are
 absolutely right son, it's definitely a perception, but being the integral part of the society, we ourselves should be the change if we want to see it in the society. Isn't it???

My friend Gurukanya says - 

I do agree...... its true......

Myself in response -
Thank you Gurukanya.

My friend Deepti says -
Absolutely. It's scientifically proven. We are wired to share and they're wired to not. That's why men are from mars and women ..well u know

Myself in response -
Yeah Deepti
, I know it well, we are stronger with our sharing spirit ..., that's why nobody dares, not even NASA or ISRO to go to Venus. Only Mars Missions!!!

My friend Jailatha says -
 
While agreeing to your concept I would like to add that what these men think as a strength to control their emotions it is actually a fear. A fear that their weakness will surface and show how vulnerable they are. This is again in line with our social norms. But the society needs to be reminded time and again that it is to the power of feminity they turn to in times of crisis. Our mythology has enough such instances.
And yes Venus is unconquerable until she wishes!!


Myself in response -
You are absolutely right Jailatha. There are many such examples of women's strength in different portrayals everywhere...

If we look into Hindu Mythology, Mahabharata says, when Yudhisthira came to know about his relation with Karna as his brother only af
ter Karna's death, he was in deepest grief & blamed mother Kunti for the entire war of Mahabharata by concealing the whole truth & cursed all of womankind by saying they would never be able to keep in their heart a secret...
To my understanding, it's not a curse at all, rather a learning lesson for the whole mankind irrespective of different genders. So no one should keep such emotions of ordeal within, that harms one's own self or the others. Because if the truth had not been hidden, there wouldn't have been the war of devastation, The Mahabharata. Anyways, such discussions are endless...

On an ending note, I'm happy of the fact that I am capable of sharing my emotions that certainly strengthens me by enhancing my happiness & lessening my sorrows... smile emoticon
 
 
 

एक एहसास जीने का.........

Where I had tried to jot down my thoughts in Hindi for the first time few years ago -

जाने वह कौन सा दिन था
जब जिंदगी ने हमें बुलाया,
थोड़ा हंसाया, थोड़ा रूलाया,
आहिस्ता आहिस्ता जीना सिखाया...

जिंदगी की वह सुनहरी सुबह
जागते जगाते ही
हमें शाम के आगोश में ले आयी,
जहाँ अंधेरा तो है,
पर शीतलता का स्पर्श भी,
जीने का एहसास भी है,
जिंदगी का निष्कर्ष भी...

मगर जिंदगी रूकती नहीं यहां,
थमते नहीं उसके कारवां,
बढ़ती जाती है आगे, और आगे,
बहुत आगे -
जाने किसी नयी खोज की ओर 
शायद वहां तक
जहां पर बंधी है
जीवन-मृत्यु की नाजुक डोर...

Tuesday 18 August 2015

A Token of Love for The Green Ambassador



After a day long work, while I was deeply immersed in thinking about life's wonders, it's roller-coaster rides, it's mysterious destinies & all, the gentle touch of a cool breeze made me conscious & compelled me to see & adore the greenery around. All of a sudden my eyes got fixed on some trees full of flowers. I questioned myself,
What makes the flowers blossom in beauty?
Why do trees mount upward?
Are they yearning or Is it their intense aspiration for peace, prosperity, light or love??
Sun started setting then...
That beautiful scenic change of time helped me recollect our recent exchange of dialogues on TIME MACHINE -
While I asked you, What would you like to change if provided with a time machine?
Your swift reply was - I would love to plant more trees & take their care on each single day of my life that left untouched with the feeling of plantation & has not been addressed & utilized with that promising act.
That's it! That's how your longing passion of multiple years translated into communion, That's all... I could sense the volume of its depth, left with short of words to revert & kept quite...
There are so many such instances those speak about the mutual sensitivity you share with any plant feeling its life & taking its care...
Being a big lover of nature I try to see things the way as you, but every time you prove to be a better nature lover than me particularly in case of the Plant World. Because you have the ability to see them as communicating beings endowed with personality & attributes of soul. You believe that the selfless peace-loving plants are able to co-operate with humanity in the Herculean job of turning this planet back into a garden from the squalor & corruption...
That belief pioneers you to move forward for the cause with all possible ways.
Every birth has a purpose...
The day of birth is truly a special day in one's life. It's an occasion for opening a new year of life with a growing new birth within, that invites us to rekindle more powerfully the flame of aspiration & get charged for a whole year to live the dreams.
May The Almighty bless you enough to accomplish the purpose of your birth to make the world a better place...
My dear, none other day is better than sharing such feeling with you except your birthday that ensures an exceptional life meant for the above lines.
Wish you a very very happy birthday!
Stay Green! Spread Green...
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